She had my contact details

 

My mother died. 

Nobody told us. 

I spoke to her just weeks before she died.
She had my contact details. 

(I rang her. It was the first phone call in several years, after she had verbally abused me and then hung up the phone. After always being the person who rang back to placate her, that was the first time I didn't. I didn't call her back. She never rang me again, ever).

If there ever was any doubt
about just how abusive she was, 
how abusive they were, 
this proves it, finally, for all time.